tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post4931229823983677045..comments2021-08-05T14:31:23.100-04:00Comments on Oh, Baby, Where Art Thou?: Why Do They Die?Let It Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14979984095394559563noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-16946553200989213582008-01-29T14:38:00.000-05:002008-01-29T14:38:00.000-05:00amberbye from ff here. I hear you loud and clear ....amberbye from ff here. I hear you loud and clear ... why do they keep dying? I would be irrate if I were you ... not getting that crucial information from the peri let's see ... way back when, when he thought to write it down!!!! ARGH! <BR/><BR/>I'm so glad you're going to CCRM and will be stalking you ... can you make sure to journal your experience there? They are on my shortlist for IVF #3 - should we need to go there. Hopefully not.<BR/><BR/>Losses stink.Polly Gamwichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09338430066217324064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-8182274403084350922008-01-29T09:34:00.000-05:002008-01-29T09:34:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry for all your pain and anger. I'm sor...I'm so sorry for all your pain and anger. I'm sorry you have had to suffer so many losses of your babies and don't have any answers. Not having answers and not having a doc you can trust is an awful, suffocating feeling. I agree, go to a specialist, be it an RI or a rheum. Hang in there. YOu have my prayers.Searchinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112896236818363817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-10296322634146556782008-01-29T08:26:00.000-05:002008-01-29T08:26:00.000-05:00Welcome to the blog-o-sphere. You have had such a ...Welcome to the blog-o-sphere. You have had such a tough road! I am so sorry for your losses.<BR/><BR/>I have not had a chance to read all of your posts but I did see that you were diagnosed with a Bicornuate or Acurate uterus. I was diagnosed with a bicornuate a year ago after 2 losses, only to find out I had a uterine septum - an anomaly that causes early loss. A septum can also be easily removed and has good obstetrical outcomes after surgery.<BR/><BR/>I am wondering how your anomaly was diagnosed - ultrasound, HSG, MRI? These diagnoses can be wrong and have very different pregnancy outcomes. I would strongly encourage you to join the Mulleriam Anomolies Yahoo group and tell the women on the boards your story. They ARE experts, both in knowledge and support. <BR/><BR/>Wishing you the best of luck.<BR/>Here are some links I wanted to share (my blog is the last:)<BR/>http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/MullerianAnomalies/<BR/>http://mulleriananomalies.blogspot.com/<BR/>http://auterusdivided.blogspot.com/adminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05496649217972403072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-48819986078222128172008-01-29T04:40:00.000-05:002008-01-29T04:40:00.000-05:00I'm sorry you are going through this, I know how h...I'm sorry you are going through this, I know how hard it is, especially when you have all these identified issues, but just keep getting told, oh, sure, you have that, but that's not it. RIGHT! Then what is? It's so frustrating. I have one piece of advice though - go to the RI, go straight to the RI, and do not pass go or collect $200. If I could've done anything different on this journey, I would have gone to the RI sooner, rather than thinking some normal doctor was going to help me.Andiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173628683150350210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-87221752516993640442008-01-28T21:10:00.000-05:002008-01-28T21:10:00.000-05:00Thank you all so much for taking the time to comme...Thank you all so much for taking the time to comment. Your support means a lot to me! It's a bit of a surreal experience to journal my thoughts in such a public forum, but then to have people get it and care enough to offer their insights and support is amazing.<BR/><BR/>I try to look at IVF as "at least I'll have a shot again." I mean if we don't at least get pg again we definitely won't have a chance at a baby. It's just that all I know of pg is inextricably tied with miscarriage. I guess in that regard it's just very hard to take it one step at a time. *Deep Breath* It has to be easier to go with the flow than to fight the current, so I'll keep on trying!Let It Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14979984095394559563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-18323712604216525982008-01-28T19:30:00.000-05:002008-01-28T19:30:00.000-05:00I wish you all the luck in your IVF cycle. I live...I wish you all the luck in your IVF cycle. I live in Colorado, so at least I can say it's a nice place to visit! You can either look at IVF as this onerous beast, or look at it as an opportunity to get pregnant. I've looked at it both ways, but it's much easier to find peace with it than fight it all the way. A friend of mine who did IVF with DE was the one who turned my attitude around on this. You've found a good way to get support on the blogsphere. Hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-38603185717503662602008-01-28T14:24:00.000-05:002008-01-28T14:24:00.000-05:00I am so sorry that the doctor stuff is adding to y...I am so sorry that the doctor stuff is adding to your suffering. <BR/><BR/>I'm hypo, too, though no one has bothered to figure out why yet. I know how much fun it is (or rather isn't) to be dealing with all sort of complicated medical crap, along with the incredible pain of IF/RPL.<BR/><BR/>Keep writing! It does help. Well, sometimes it helps...Shinejilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03353174053245279899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1143382567793825010.post-31525170995048317702008-01-27T22:55:00.000-05:002008-01-27T22:55:00.000-05:00I wish I could jump through the screen and give yo...I wish I could jump through the screen and give you a hug. I am so sorry you are going through this, hun. I know it's not the same as having someone with you, but you aren't alone. Please keep getting it all out here. You will get through this. Hugs.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.com